What are the two types of M2F transsexual?
Its always been acknowledged in the scientific literature that
there are two groups of transsexuals. In different classification
schemes these are referred to as primary and secondary, early onset and
late onset, true and marginal, core and non-core, ego-syntonic and
ego-dystonic, and homosexual and autogynephilic. The first group is
similar to homosexuals in development and are most commonly gay boys
before they transition, and the second group is similar to
heterosexual transvestites in development and most commonly
transvestites before they transition. We therefore prefer to use the
homosexual/autogynephilic terminology because while the others
characterize the two conditions, this terminology articulates the
nature of the two conditions and is etiologically more descriptive.
Homosexual Transsexuals (HSTS) are transsexuals who transition young
principly for social reasons. As boys they are very feminine and have a
difficult time socially, romantically, and sexually, so they
transition to fit in better and have more normal lives in those three
areas. They are etiologically similar to homosexual boys with
commonalities in childhood and adolescence. HSTS sexuality is
uncomplicated, typical, and unconfused, they are simply attracted to
and desire relationships with men. They tend to view transition as a
way to facilitate other life goals such as being regarded as normal by
peers, having an easier time getting relationships with boys, etc.
Behaviorally as boys, they come off as obviously queer or feminine
gays, not straight acting, but not necessarily flamboyant. Their
early and extreme feminine behavior is always noted early in life by
parents, schools and peers. They will only transition if they can
pull it off successfully to the extent that no one would suspect that
they were born male, because their aim is to become better adjusted
in society. If people could tell they were TS after transition, they
would be more socially marginalized then they were before. Given
these practical concerns, if the decision to transition is actually
made then it will always be in adolescence and they are substantially
smaller and more feminine in build then average males, otherwise they
would not be able to be physically female enough to be more successful
as women then they could be as men (but of course if they were
successful and well adjusted as males it wouldn't occur to them to
want to transition, they would simply be gay). HSTS start out as
homosexual, gender variant, not very well adjusted or socially and
sexually successful boys, and hopefully end up as heterosexual, gender
normative, well adjusted and socially acceptable girls. Homosexual
transsexuals can be characterized as being both feminine and
simultaneously very self selecting for the liklihood of success if
they choose to live as girls rather than as gay boys. The objective
of transitioning is to improve social and sexual functioning in
adulthood.
Autogynephilic transsexuals (AGPs) on the other hand, transition to
satisfy an intense internal urge to be the opposite gender. This urge
is sometimes described as a paraphilia, a fetish, or an inverted
heterosexual drive where they, attracted to women, want to become the
objects of their desire. They are attracted to the female physical
form, so their core sexuality is heterosexual (as men), but since
their preferred object of desire is not another person but themselves,
they have a very atypical and complicated sexuality. They often find
it confusing, and mysterious, and while they are in the vast majority
of cases originally attracted to women, their perceived sexual
orientation may shift. They are not physically attracted to men but
may be interested in men for other reasons, to complete their
autogynephilic fantasy of themselves as a woman. Autogynephilic
transsexuals are etiologically similar to transvestites. They tend to
view becoming a woman as a life goal in and of itself, one they are
willing to abandon important features of their life such as a wife or
children, job, and being seen as a normal person in order to
accomplish.
Behaviorally as men, they tend to be averagely masculine, straight
acting heterosexuals. They can potentially transition at any age
though most transition as adults. Unlike hsts who are never very
successful socially as males, agps often marry as men, have biological
children with their wives, and lead successful lives as men before
they transition. Physically they are averagely male in appearance
until transition, and rarely pass in a truly convincing way as women,
which is not nearly as distressing for them as it would be to a hsts
because their reasons for transitioning do not depend on how well they
are going to be socially adjusted after they are finished. AGPs
typically start out as heterosexual, gender normative, socially
acceptable men and end up as homosexual (lesbian) or bisexual, gender
variant, less than socially acceptable women, but given the specifics
of their disorder, they are often still happier as female then male
despite being less well off by most objective measures.
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